Attracting the right relationships...What does this really mean?

So I was talking with a friend of mine the other day about the whole concept of attracting the right relationships into your life. What does this actually mean? I had a history of being involved in toxic relationships. I had reached a breaking point and knew I had to stop the cycle, but couldn’t for the life of me understand... Why was I ending up in the same scenario over and over? I’m a genuinely nice person, what ya see is whatcha get, so why is it that I’m attracting Jeckyl and Hyde?! Lol! It took me years to fully understand this. It begins with healing from past wounds, being able to forgive those who hurt you, being able to forgive yourself… and critically important… getting to know yourself. Really know yourself, a full awareness of who you are authentically. As always I share this with you from the most raw and authentic place of my own life experience…